Have you started to figure out that it can be harder to stay in love than to fall in love? Do you want to add twice the love to your relationship? If so, there are several powerful steps you can take today to begin doing that. You can get True Love Advice here.
One skill you can use to double the love you feel is called Playful Intimacy. This is a tool that you can learn in minutes and use to add to the love you feel starting today.
To start using the tool of playful intimacy, stop a moment and think of 4 things your mate could do that would make you feel good, happy and loved. Start with easy actions they could take that wouldn’t take long but that would make you feel nice, happy, pleased if they did them.
It could be wearing sexy lingerie around the house, giving you a shoulder massage, or cuddling on the couch for a few minutes after you both get home from work. What wouldn’t take much more than five minutes of time from your mate that would please you? You can get more on Get help on fixing relationship problems here here.
Once you have your list, you are halfway home to doubling or tripling the love you feel in your relationship. You have successfully identified things that your mate could do that would make you feel good.
Then all you need to do is make Intimate Requests for what’s on your list. You ask them to cook dinner as usual but this time wearing sexy lingerie. You ask for a 5 minute back rub when you get home from work. Whatever.
You want more love. So instead of expecting your mate to know how to make you feel loved, you figure it out and tell them! You ask playfully. You ask with a sense of humor. You make it okay if they say no. You offer a trade. If they give you a backrub, you’ll do x that they like. But you ask!
You really can add more love to your relationship consciously. You can cause more love. You stop moping about diminishing love and you be proactive to build more of it into your love life. Then ask your mate what would make them feel good, and do some of those things for them. In just minutes from now you can see how this works to double the love you both feel in your relationship. You can get more True Love Advice here.
